The book of Job addresses the question of -suffering more than any portion of Scripture. Although God responds to Job's questions (Chapters 38-41) with His longest unbroken speech in the Bible, He never tells Job why. He basically tells Job that as God He can do whatever He wants, and that's all the answer Job needs.
Big help right?
The fact that God doesn't answer Job's question is somewhat disturbing. But the following perspective may help when you are faced with suffering and evil.
- God didn't condemn Job for his questions. He just reminded Job whom he was talking to. It seems that why is a question we're free to ask, but God isn't bound to answer. Sometimes he will; sometimes he won't.
- We live in a fallen world. Bad stuff can and will happen.
- Being a Christian--or a "good person"-- does not exempt you from suffering. Jesus even guaranteed that we'll experience hard times (John 16:33). But we can be comforted: Jesus overcame suffering and we can, too. It's easy to serve God when life is sunny; the test is how we respond when the storm washes over us.
- Contrary to what a lot of Christians, God does not promise His children happiness. He's much more concerned with our holiness. Worthwhile things seldom, if ever, come without great cost. Following Jesus is no exception. That's why the Christian life sometimes involves pain and sacrifice.
- Finally, when nothing else helps, remember this: When you or someone you love suffers, no one hurts more than God. He's a good father who hates to see His children hurt. He feels with us so genuinely that He got personally involved in our struggle--He became a man who suffered and died for us. So when you hurt, remember: You never cry alone. God knows and cares.